A Simple, but Profound, Principle for Effective Change
The First Step in a New Dance
The Power of Women’s Conversations
CBT in Action
The Gift of Time
A couple came into my office insisting that their problem was communication. Otherwise translated, this really means…”He doesn’t talk!” As I proceeded with my standard in-take routine, it appeared to be quite clear that he could talk …in fact, he was quite talkative. So much for this being a communication problem! Often the fundamental problem […]
Spouses are Not Roomies
Marriage is more than shared costs “I’m so bored! He watches football on Monday; wrestling on Tuesday…Friday is guy’s night; on Saturday we get together with friends. He is always tired…we never do anything together…we even celebrated our anniversary with friends…” These lamenting words were overheard as two friends pushed themselves through their rigorous Stairmaster […]
Commitment and a ‘big’ dream
At the Centre of a Successful Relationship… there is insulation from temptation and boredom. Commitment is an action that encompasses a short-term decision that one loves another, and a long-term decision to maintain that love. This action is more clearly a matter of the ‘head’ rather than of the ‘heart’. Saying this is not meant to detract […]
